Dear Sir/madam
I have a profile on your site for sme time; i would like to avail of a 'romance tour'.
I wish to travel in 3/4 weeks.
 Please can you advise me what information you require.
 Of course like most men I would like to met women younger than me-maybe late 20s to late 30s?

November 10, 2010Posted by Don

 
Dear Sesile :-),

 
Thank you for your reply this evening.

 
My arrival date is late June 2011.  I would like to meet women within the following criteria:
 

 
Very attractive and slim. This is a prerequisite.
 
Preferably tall-5' 8'' but this is not a prerequisite as most women are smaller.
 
Girl must be good-natured, mild-mannered and respectful.
 
Age: 20s to mid 30s.
 
She must speak conversational English at least.
 
Education to third level would be nice but this is not a prerequisite.
 
I am an earnest gentleman looking for a long-term relationship with a view to marriage (and children eventually should my partner so wish of course).

I am by all accounts respectful and successful businessman. I have other interests such as lecturing, travel, books, some sport, photography etc.
 
The young lady should like being with children as I have 6 siblings and 10 nieces and nephews whom I visit.
 
I would fully support my love with any career pursuits or study requirements or even assist in the establishing of a business for her. We may live in Ireland, UK or elsewhere during or life together but initially Ireland and the UK.
 
I am very loyal and value this in a woman. I am not interested in meeting women only for a physical relationship; both men and women can obtain that anywhere. I am looking for my future wife. I am a romantic.
 
I am at an age now that I feel I can put my energies to a happy family life as well as building our careers (it is of course not necessary that she has a career at present or even later-i am easy either way) and business further. I have never been married -I live alone- and see marriage as forever. I do not subscribe to the marry-divorce-remarry culture.
 
Due to the fact I work in the public area somewhat; with many clients etc.; I trust in your discretion. I have omitted/altered some detail on my profile page for reasons of discretion. These are not materially important, I believe. I will always be honest with any woman to whom you introduce me.
 
I am willing to phone you to discuss this matter at your convenience.
 
Don

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Dear Don,

sorry for not getting back to you on time. we had Internet blackout
here in the office for almost a week. the Internet service resumed
just couple of hours ago.

due to lack of staff we won't be able to arrange a romance tour during
the next 2 months.

we sincerely apologise for the inconvenience caused by this late reply.

thanks, sesile

Can you stop sending email when ladies message me.
thanks

November 10, 2010Posted by Someone

 

hi, unfortunately that is impossible.

thanks, sesile.com

Hello,
I have just registered as a free member, and the text told me that I then would be able to send short messages to ladies to find out if they were interested in more contact. But it seems impossible to find out how to do it. Can you please tell me if it is a real option or a bluff?
Regards,
Ivar

November 10, 2010Posted by Someone

 

Hello,
Enclosed you will find a PDF copy of a print of the ladies page. What is
seen is what is seen on her page on the web, but arranged a bit different.
As you see there is no option for sending messages.
I have done some investigations, and found that some ladies have this
option, but many don“t.
I am grateful for your help, and hopefully I will get the incentive to be a
full member.
Regards,
Ivar



======it is normal not to see the option on all profiles as the ladies have
the option to restrict the type of men who can contact them. we
introduced this option because in the past the young ladies used to
get hundreds of mail from men older than their father. it seem this
lady is looking for different age group of men, but she can change her
preferences in the future if she wishes.

thanks, sesile

Hi,
 
how to prevent people not contacting me?  i have some contacts of which im not intersted of.  Is there some filter?
 

November 10, 2010Posted by hinuoo

 

hi, if you are not interested in a lady you can send a polite "no thank you card" - it takes just 1 click. if she writes you again after that please send her ID number to us.

thanks, sesile.com